Mentoring Love with Roma Hammel

Love, Contact and Mutual Awakening ∼
A Journey into Profound Intimacy and Spiritual Depth

Twelve Wednesdays
10:00 AM – 12:30 PM Pacific
Sep 23, Oct 7, Oct 21, Nov 4, Nov 18, Dec 2, Jan 27, Feb 10, Feb 24, Mar 10, Mar 24, Apr 7
Online via Zoom

Applications Now Open

Welcome to Mentoring Love

Applications now being accepted for September 2026

This advanced mentoring series explores how love becomes a path of realization when we remain deeply embodied and in authentic contact with others. Through meditation, somatic inquiry, and relational dialogue, participants discover how the ground of being expresses itself through human intimacy, vulnerability, and connection.

Guided by Judith Blackstone’s The Intimate Life: Awakening to the Spiritual Essence in Yourself and Others, we cultivate our capacity for authentic contact through four pathways:

Presence

  • Inhabit the luminous subtle core of your body.
  • Uncover an indestructible wholeness and true oneness with other people.
  • Live within this palpable, lively stillness—the ground of our being.

Resonance

  • Unveil unbounded depth, vibrancy, and creativity.
  • Feel moved in your own heart by meeting with kindred spirits.
  • Experience love meeting love, understanding meeting understanding.

Compassion

  • Share healing journeys, experiencing empathy across distance.
  • Recognize that wounds and defenses were formed to feel safe and loved.
  • Experience compassion welling up as a spontaneous response to your own and others’ suffering.

Vulnerability

  • Let yourself be seen — as you are — inviting dignity and depth in being witnessed.
  • Share what’s real and what you long for, unwinding patterns of self-silencing and performance.
  • Speak from the core, listening as fundamental consciousness — landing in truth and living in reality.

Examples of Somatic Inquiries

  • Do you self-silence or withdraw emotionally to avoid conflict or discomfort?
  • Do you suppress your desires to prioritize others’ needs?
  • Do you intellectualize your feelings to avoid emotional vulnerability?

Who This Course Is For

Graduates of Mentoring Presence and Mentoring Intimacy who seek to deepen their nondual realization in the crucible of relationship.

Sessions Overview

  1. Becoming Real: Uncovering a Profound Wholeness and Unity of Self and Others
  2. Attuning Together in the Relational Field
  3. Growing Toward Wholeness and Oneness Simultaneously
  4. The Clear-Through Transparency of Being
  5. Dancing Core-to-Core: The Secret of Resonance
  6. Mutual Resonance: The Art of True Contact
  7. Seeing and Feeling Without Barriers
  8. Inhabiting the Body as Unitive Consciousness
  9. Compassion as a Path to Intimacy and Mutual Awakening
  10. Sexual Intimacy and the Wholeness of Being
  11. Love as the Path of Realization
  12. The Radiance of Being

Course Fees

  • Tuition: $2,250 for the full 30-hour curriculum
  • Private Sessions (4 minimum): $175 per 50-minute session (discounted from $250)
  • Payment Plans Available

What’s Included in Your Investment

Your $2,250 tuition provides access to:

  1. 30 Hours of Immersive Cohort Sessions
    Deepen your exploration of nondual presence through guided meditations, somatic inquiries, and relational practices.
  2. Personalized Group Support
    Receive tailored feedback and guidance in a supportive community that addresses your unique challenges and fosters growth.
  3. Specialized Healing Sessions & Talks
    Engage in themed discussions and healing-focused segments to expand your capacity for embodied presence.
  4. Session Recordings
    Access recorded sessions to review material or catch up if you miss a class.
  5. Bonus Guided Practices
    Enhance your practice between sessions with additional meditations and self-inquiry exercises.
  6. Study Guides & Journaling Prompts
    Reflect on key teachings and track your progress through structured prompts and practice suggestions.
  7. Curated Resources
    Explore recommended readings, videos, and articles that enrich your understanding of fundamental consciousness and relational awakening.
  8. Optional Monthly Cross-Level Sessions
    Connect with participants from other mentoring programs for shared practice, group meditations, and mutual support.

Reflections

“Roma is an extraordinary, compassionate, and perceptive teacher.

Along with a deep understanding of the principles and practices of the Realization Process, she brings to her work the finely attuned spiritual sensitivity, psychological insight and warm loving presence gained from her own awakening.

I highly recommend her.”

Judith Blackstone, PhD, Realization Process founder

“Roma, your presence has been a profound gift in my life. What would have taken me years to learn has unfolded with ease and depth through your guidance. I feel truly seen and supported. Integrating the spiritual and the somatic has brought me closer to my true nature, revealing a sense of wholeness that I hadn’t known before.”

Kishore Bubna, Senior Realization Process Teacher

“I can barely begin to explain the alchemy of Roma’s work. Her ability to guide me into a lived, visceral integration of body, mind and heart is a gift I didn’t expect to experience in this lifetime.”

Cynthia Riha, Senior Realization Process Teacher

“Through her compassion, presence, and creativity, Roma creates a uniquely safe and supportive container in which true deepening and healing can unfold. Her dynamic teaching style responds to the needs of the group and the aliveness of each moment with sensitivity and grace.”

Jason von Halle, Senior Realization Process Teacher

“Roma is the most amazing teacher. She holds space with great skill, pushing and probing in the kindest and gentlest ways, bringing about dramatic and subtle changes simultaneously. Few embody such depth, kindness, inclusiveness, and generosity.”

Louise Reader, Senior Realization Process Teacher

“Roma is an extraordinary teacher. She is vibrantly alive, wise, and a healing presence. She embodies and transmits the unconditional love and luminosity of fundamental consciousness, offering a safe space for people to open their hearts and deeply connect with themselves and the world around them.”

Fiona Ballmer, Senior Realization Process Teacher

“You have a rare gift for intuitively guiding me in our private sessions—and each one of us in your mentoring groups—into a lived experience of who we truly are: whole, authentic and vibrantly alive.”

Laura Seligman, Senior Realization Process Teacher

“The space of transformational change opens in Roma’s Presence. She attunes to your breath, your heart, and your story and gently guides you home to the center of your Being.”

Marcia Haarer, Senior Realization Process Teacher